What exactly is it?
Mutual massage has two parts. In the first, the masseuse massages you, just like during any other erotic massage. In the second, the roles are reversed and you massage her.
The masseuse guides you throughout. She tells you where to place your hands and at what pace. You find yourself in a position most people have never experienced: before you is the body of someone who knows how to relax, and you have plenty of time to notice how they respond.
Who It’s Suitable For
It suits people who find lying passively boring or uncomfortable. Some people simply need to be doing something; otherwise, their mind drifts back to work.
The second group are those who massage their partner at home and would like to do it better. In ninety minutes, you’ll learn more than from videos, because you get immediate feedback from someone who truly understands the right pace.
The third group feels uncomfortable when “someone is taking care of them” and they have no way to return the favor. With a mutual massage, this feeling disappears.
The most common concern: I don’t know how to massage
Our masseuses hear this all the time, and it’s an unnecessary worry. No one expects any special technique from you. A slow, smooth touch and a willingness to listen to what the masseuse says is more than enough.
Most people also stop worrying in the second half about whether they’re doing it right, because they realize that giving a massage is relaxing in itself. The hands stay busy, and the mind goes quiet.
What helps: work more slowly than feels natural. Beginners almost always rush.
How the Massage Takes Place
It starts the same as anywhere else. A welcome, a shower, and a short discussion about what you want and what you don’t. Your time in the shower is included in the price.
The first half is all about you. The masseuse works with her hands and body, relaxes your back and legs, and gradually moves on to the more sensual part.
Then the roles switch. The masseuse will guide you on where to begin and let you know along the way what feels right for her. For most people, this part is surprisingly calming, as the focus shifts from “what am I feeling” to “what am I doing.”
It concludes with a shower, just like our other massages.
How Much Time to Set Aside
The one-hour session includes both parts, but at a brisker pace. There needs to be time for both the massage for you and the one from you.
Ninety minutes is what most people choose. Both halves can unfold calmly, there’s time to catch your breath in between, and no one is watching the clock. If you’re hesitating between a shorter mutual massage and a longer Body to Body massage, it’s usually worth paying a little extra for the longer mutual option. A rushed exchange of roles loses its purpose.
Each masseuse lists her prices by session length on her profile; a full overview is available in the price list.
What to agree on in advance
A mutual massage is about touch in both directions, but each masseuse’s boundaries still apply. Agree at the start on where touching is allowed and where it isn’t. It takes twenty seconds and saves any awkwardness halfway through.
The second thing is the pace. If you know you enjoy a calmer, slower rhythm, say so right away. The masseuse can then shape the first half more gently, leaving more space for switching roles.
When to Choose Something Else
For your very first erotic massage, mutual play isn’t the best choice. It’s easier to start by simply lying back and saving it for next time.
Similarly, after a demanding day when all you want is to switch off. Taking an active role in that state is more likely to wear you out.
You can see which masseuses offer mutual massage in their profiles in the overview of masseuses.
